HENRY COUNTY, VA — Devoted Mother and Aspiring Nurse Fatally Shot: Estranged Husband in Custody After Two-Day Search
Ridgeway, VA — October 21, 2025
The Henry County community is mourning the tragic and senseless death of 39-year-old Rhonda Hairston, a mother of three and aspiring nurse, who was fatally shot at her Ridgeway home over the weekend. Authorities say she was killed by her estranged husband, Joseph Lockett, who was arrested Monday following a two-day manhunt.
Deputies with the Henry County Sheriff’s Office responded to a welfare check on Saturday, October 19, at Rhonda’s residence on Clover Leaf Drive. Inside, they discovered a devastating scene: Rhonda was found deceased in her bedroom, having suffered multiple gunshot wounds. Her death has left her family, friends, and neighbors in deep grief — and a community reeling from yet another domestic violence tragedy.
💔 A Life Stolen Too Soon
Family members say Rhonda had recently made the difficult decision to end her relationship with Lockett after years of turbulence. She was working toward a degree in nursing, balancing school with raising her three children — one of whom was home when the tragedy occurred.
It was her teenage son who made the heartbreaking discovery, prompting the call to authorities. According to loved ones, Rhonda’s decision to separate from Lockett was a courageous step toward building a better life for herself and her children.
“She wanted more — not just for herself, but for her kids,” said her sister, Monica Hairston. “She had dreams, and she was finally starting to live for herself again.”
Rhonda was described as a woman with an infectious smile, a nurturing soul, and an unwavering love for her family. She had recently been accepted into a licensed practical nursing (LPN) program and was excited to begin a new chapter.
“She was going to be a nurse — she was already that to so many of us,” said a close friend. “She was the one you called when you were sick, when you were tired, when you needed someone to believe in you. She gave so much.”
🛑 A Pattern Too Familiar
The shooting has reignited conversations about domestic violence and the hidden dangers many women face when trying to leave toxic relationships. Family members and investigators believe jealousy and control may have been factors leading up to the shooting.
“This was a woman trying to escape — and she was punished for that,” said a local advocate with the Southside Survivors Network. “Too often, when women take those first steps toward safety, they are met with violence. We have to do more to protect them.”
Court records reveal prior disputes and tension between Hairston and Lockett, though it’s unclear if any active protective orders were in place at the time of the incident.
👮♂️ Arrest and Ongoing Investigation
After nearly 48 hours of searching, Joseph Lockett surrendered to authorities on Monday, October 21, without incident. The Sheriff’s Office confirmed he is facing charges of first-degree murder and use of a firearm in the commission of a felony.
He is currently being held without bond at the Henry County Jail. The investigation remains active and ongoing, with detectives continuing to collect evidence and speak to witnesses.
Authorities have not released further details regarding the timeline of the shooting or Lockett’s whereabouts during the two days he was evading arrest.
🕯️ Mourning Rhonda, Supporting Her Children
As the investigation continues, the focus for many now turns to Rhonda’s three children, who must now face life without their mother. A GoFundMe campaign has been launched by the family to assist with funeral expenses and to support the children in the coming months.
“We are doing the best we can,” said Monica Hairston. “But we weren’t prepared for this. Nobody ever is. We’re asking the community to please help us honor Rhonda the way she deserved.”
The family is planning a celebration of life ceremony later this week, with details to be shared via social media and local outlets. Community members have already begun dropping off donations, food, and notes of support to the family’s home.
📣 A Call to Action
Rhonda Hairston’s death is a painful reminder of the real and present danger of intimate partner violence, especially when victims attempt to break free.
Local leaders and advocacy groups are urging the community to educate themselves on the signs of abuse, the importance of support networks, and the resources available for those at risk.
If you or someone you know is in an unsafe situation, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233, or reach out to a local shelter or advocacy group.
🖤 In Memory of Rhonda Hairston
Rhonda’s legacy will live on — in her children, in the lives she touched, and in the dreams she dared to pursue. Her story, though cut short, is one of resilience, hope, and motherly love. She will not be remembered for the way she died, but for the way she lived: with heart, courage, and quiet strength.
Rest in peace, Rhonda.
Your light will not be forgotten.
🔗 How to Help:
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Donate to the family’s GoFundMe: “Help Lay Rhonda Hairston to Rest & Support Her Children”
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Attend the vigil or memorial (details to follow via local updates)
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Support domestic violence programs in Henry County through volunteering or donations
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Speak out. Help someone. Save a life.
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