It is with profound sadness and heartbreak that the Fort Wayne Amateur Hockey Association (FWAHA) and the entire hockey community announce the passing of Xander Wittbrod‑Rouse, a talented and beloved member of the Carmel Ice Hounds. His loss is deeply felt throughout the rink, the locker room, and the hearts of everyone who knew him both on and off the ice.
A Sudden Loss That Leaves a Void
News of Xander’s unexpected death on October 6, 2025 has sent shockwaves through Carmel, Indiana, and beyond. Though details surrounding the circumstances remain private, those close to him describe the moment as sudden and incomprehensible.
For a sport built on teamwork, trust, and camaraderie, losing someone like Xander is a fracture not easily healed. The rink feels emptier, the bench quieter, and the routine of practices and games now carries a hollow echo.
Who Xander Was: More Than Just a Player
Though his time was too short, Xander’s presence left an indelible mark on all who knew him.
On the Ice
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He wore jersey #75 and played defense for the Carmel Ice Hounds, where he was known not only for his skill but for his consistent work ethic and sportsmanship.According to Indiana high school hockey records, Xander competed in the 2024‑25 Junior Varsity season for Carmel Blue, appearing in 27 games, recording 1 goal and 1 assist, and accumulating 29 penalty minutes.Coaches and teammates credit him with leading by example—pushing himself in practice, offering encouragement to others, and always striving to get better
Off the Ice
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Those who knew Xander personally say his kindness, humility, and warmth defined him. He was someone who lit up a room with his smile and made others feel seen.
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His character stood out: respectful, caring, and always willing to support his friends and teammates. Some described him as a “gentle giant.”
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Coach Nick, who had the privilege of guiding Xander for three years, said,
“Xander was a wonderful, kind, respectful young man with the biggest heart and smile to match … He was the best teammate one can ask for.”
The Response: Grief, Solidarity & Tribute
From FWAHA & the Hockey Community
Though based in Fort Wayne, the FWAHA family recognizes the impact that youth hockey has across the region. Xander was part of that larger fabric—he connected communities through shared passion and friendly rivalry. The announcement of his passing has been met with deep sorrow and solidarity, as many hockey programs express their support, condolences, and respect for his memory.
From Teammates, Coaches & Community
Tributes have poured in:
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Many comment on how he “brought so much joy to the rink every day,” and that the game won’t feel the same without him.Friends and fellow players shared memories of Xander’s encouragement, his lighthearted banter, and his quiet leadership in challenging moments.
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Social media is being flooded with photos, heartfelt messages, and reflections on the impact he had—both in small acts and grand gestures.
At local rinks, teams are planning moments of silence, tributes before games, and memory boards where teammates can leave notes and mementos. The rink that once echoed with his stride will now echo his name.
What Lies Ahead: Honoring His Memory & Supporting the Family
As the community adjusts to life without him, several steps are being taken in his honor:
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Memorial gatherings and services are being organized; details are expected to be released via team and family channels. The Carmel Ice Hounds and local youth hockey organizations are urging donations, support, or gestures that reflect Xander’s spirit—such as scholarship funds, community service, or acts of kindness in his name.
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Coaches are helping teammates cope, offering counseling, and creating spaces for grief and remembrance.
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The family has requested privacy as they mourn, but have expressed gratitude for the outpouring of love, support, and prayers from across the region.
A Legacy That Endures
Though Xander’s life has been cut far too short, his legacy is already woven into the fabric of his teammates’ hearts, his coaches’ memories, and his community’s spirit. The lessons he embodied—resilience, kindness, humility, and teamwork—will continue to guide those who follow in his footsteps.
Every time skates cut across the ice, every time a player uplifts a teammate, every act of kindness in the locker room will carry a part of Xander’s spirit.
To the Wittbrod‑Rouse family: we grieve with you, we stand with you, and we honor Xander’s memory. May you find strength in the love around you, comfort in shared memories, and hope in the knowledge that his light continues in every life he touched.
Rest in peace, Xander. You will never be forgotten.
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